Moment by moment you are assigning the meaning to everything in your life. This is good and that is bad. This is fun and that is work. This is holy and that is evil. You label and you sticker over whatever you encounter including your relationships.
However life has no intrinsic meaning. Nothing comes with your labels. Take care to remember the moment you assign meaning to something you can no longer see it clearly for it has become clouded by the filters of your fuzzy, pain-filled, mis-interpreted life experiences.
The moment you find yourself affixing a label to something or someone - yank it off! Let things be. Let whatever happens be OK. Don’t try to change what is. The singular, correct response to every situation is to simply observe and learn.